You never know the importance of
people in your life till they vanish from it. Along the road, you meet people,
get to know them, develop impressions and opinions about them. Relationships
with them takes many forms; relatives, family, friends, and colleagues. But your
actual feelings arise only when they are not part of your life anymore.
First, life roads get crossing each other.
You meet someone new, and here comes the first impression legend. Some will
tell you that first impression never lies, well, this is partially true. The people
I miss the most now in my life are the ones with the false first impression. So
don’t ever count on the first impression.
Then you start spending time together,
knowing each other more, when you get to check your first impression, and when
time passes, you start developing initial feelings about them.
Sometimes you hate these new people,
love them or other times you just think that you have no feelings at all about
them.
Let me assure you, with my personal experiment,
that these feelings are just a disguise of your actual feelings.
Time passes, and your life road
takes a turn and someone in your life starts to vanish. Then and only then you
will start re-exploring your feelings and thoughts about him/her.
You will figure that the friend you
thought you love has no effect in your life and you will barely remember him/her
during your ordinary day.
You will find that the person you
hated but got used to is someone you really love and you keep remembering him/her,
and your life is different without him/her.
The people that you took their
presence for granted, will seem the most important of all when life separates
you from them.
The bottom line is, cherish every
moment with the people around you, whether you like, love or even hate them, as
you never know when they will get out of your life.
